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I matched with my dream person but I'm scared of sending a boring 'hey' - what should I say?

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I matched with my dream person but I'm scared of sending a boring 'hey' - what should I say?

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Listen, forget the "hey" anxiety - the secret is finding something specific to comment on. Like, if they have a photo at a restaurant, you could say "That place in your second pic looks amazing - please tell me they have good pasta!" It's way more engaging than stressing over the perfect opener.

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We have no common interests in their profile - where do I even start?

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We have no common interests in their profile - where do I even start?

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No common interests? That's actually a perfect opportunity! You could go with something playful like "So I notice we have absolutely nothing in common - want to tell me why your hobbies are better than mine?" Sometimes those differences make for the best conversations!

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I want to restart our conversation after it died last week - is that too late?

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I want to restart our conversation after it died last week - is that too late?

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A week is nothing! Just jump back in with something light like "Coming back from the ghost zone to say hi! Still up for that chat about [whatever you talked about]?"

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Is it okay to message first or should I wait for them to reach out?

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Is it okay to message first or should I wait for them to reach out?

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YES! Seriously, waiting games are so 2010. If you're interested, show it! The right person will appreciate that confidence.

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Their profile is super minimal - how do I start a meaningful conversation?

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Their profile is super minimal - how do I start a meaningful conversation?

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Focus on what IS there. Even a single photo can give you something - maybe they're wearing a band tee, or they're at a cool location. Or just be straight up: "Your profile is giving me mysterious vibes - what's your best conversation starter?"

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I tend to overthink my opening messages - what's actually working for people?

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I tend to overthink my opening messages - what's actually working for people?

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Everyone does it! But you know what actually works? Being genuine and showing real interest. Like, I had this friend who just asked someone about their dog in their profile pic - they're married now!

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So, after talking with my crush for a month, he just texted me asking to meet up for the first time. However, I don't think I'm ready yet. What should I say?

omg!! those butterflies in your stomach must be going wild!

totally get why you're nervous - first meetups are always like that

hey but no pressure - if you're not ready, just tell them! maybe something like:
"hey! really appreciate the invite and love our chats - might need a bit more time tho, hope you understand"

or keep it super casual:
"thanks for asking! mind if we chat a bit longer? still feeling kinda shy 🙈"

trust me, if they're worth it, they'll understand

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Oh gosh, this is such a classic 'party vs deadline' situation!

how about asking them: "I've got some stuff tonight too... how long do you think you'll need help?" just to see if it's even doable

if it feels like too much (probably is tbh), just be straight up:
"really wish I could help, but got my own deadline crunch tonight. Maybe check with your prof about an extension?"

look, we've all had those deadline panic moments, but let's be real here - they've had plenty of time to work on this before the party came up.

sometimes being a good friend means not enabling these last-minute habits, you know what I mean?

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Hold up - this profile is giving EVERYTHING! 😍

You could definitely play off her coffee enthusiasm since she seems pretty passionate about it!

like "I see you're a coffee enthusiast - what's your take on the best coffee spot in town? I'm always looking for new recommendations!"

or you could go with something like "Your photography interest caught my eye - got any favorite spots for spontaneous photo adventures around here?"

Both are super natural and not trying too hard!

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