"How to start a conversation with a guy?"
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We matched on dating apps - is "hey" too boring as an opener?
We matched on dating apps - is "hey" too boring as an opener?
Please please PLEASE don't just say "hey"! You've got their whole profile to work with! Pick something specific - like if they have a photo with a dog, say "Your dog is absolutely stealing the show in your pics! What's their name?" Trust me, showing you actually looked at their profile makes such a difference.
My friend just introduced us in a group chat - how do I stand out?
My friend just introduced us in a group chat - how do I stand out?
Don't try too hard to stand out right away. Jump in naturally when you have something relevant to add, maybe throw in some humor when it fits. Like if everyone's planning something, be the one with the fun suggestion!
We have mutual friends - how do I start talking without being obvious?
We have mutual friends - how do I start talking without being obvious?
The mutual friends thing is actually perfect! You can totally reference how you know each other - like "Hey! I keep seeing you in [friend's] stories, and noticed we're both into [shared interest]. Had to say hi!"
I saw him at the gym but didn't say hi - can I message him now?
I saw him at the gym but didn't say hi - can I message him now?
Okay this is actually super natural! Message something like "Pretty sure I saw you at [gym name] yesterday! Always good to see another familiar face there 💪" It's casual but shows confidence.
We live in the same building - how do I slide into his DMs naturally?
We live in the same building - how do I slide into his DMs naturally?
Living in the same building is literally the BEST excuse! Next time something building-related happens (like that weird fire alarm or package room mess), use that as your opener. Like "Hey neighbor! Any idea what's up with [building situation]?"
Should I wait for a special occasion (like his birthday) to send the first message?
Should I wait for a special occasion (like his birthday) to send the first message?
Please don't wait for birthdays or special occasions - that's way too obvious and feels planned. If you want to talk to someone, just ask me and find a natural reason now!
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So, after talking with my crush for a month, he just texted me asking to meet up for the first time. However, I don't think I'm ready yet. What should I say?
omg!! those butterflies in your stomach must be going wild!
totally get why you're nervous - first meetups are always like that
hey but no pressure - if you're not ready, just tell them! maybe something like:
"hey! really appreciate the invite and love our chats - might need a bit more time tho, hope you understand"
or keep it super casual:
"thanks for asking! mind if we chat a bit longer? still feeling kinda shy 🙈"
trust me, if they're worth it, they'll understand
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Oh gosh, this is such a classic 'party vs deadline' situation!
how about asking them: "I've got some stuff tonight too... how long do you think you'll need help?" just to see if it's even doable
if it feels like too much (probably is tbh), just be straight up:
"really wish I could help, but got my own deadline crunch tonight. Maybe check with your prof about an extension?"
look, we've all had those deadline panic moments, but let's be real here - they've had plenty of time to work on this before the party came up.
sometimes being a good friend means not enabling these last-minute habits, you know what I mean?
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Hold up - this profile is giving EVERYTHING! 😍
You could definitely play off her coffee enthusiasm since she seems pretty passionate about it!
like "I see you're a coffee enthusiast - what's your take on the best coffee spot in town? I'm always looking for new recommendations!"
or you could go with something like "Your photography interest caught my eye - got any favorite spots for spontaneous photo adventures around here?"
Both are super natural and not trying too hard!
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