"How to start a conversation with a girl on text?"
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Is "hey" too boring for a first message? What should I say instead?
Is "hey" too boring for a first message? What should I say instead?
honestly, it works sometimes but why not stand out a bit? Like, if you notice something interesting in their profile, mention that! Even a simple "Love your travel pics! Where was that beach shot taken?" shows you actually looked at their profile. Way better than being the 100th "hey" in their inbox, you know?
She responds with short answers - does this mean she's not interested?
She responds with short answers - does this mean she's not interested?
Short answers... ugh, that can be frustrating! But don't jump to conclusions just yet. Some people are just naturally brief texters, or maybe they're busy. Try asking open-ended questions that can't be answered with just "yes" or "no" and see if that helps. If they're still giving one-word responses after a few attempts... then yeah, they might not be super invested.
We matched but haven't talked for a week - is it too late to message now?
We matched but haven't talked for a week - is it too late to message now?
A week after matching? Totally fine to message! Just keep it light like "Hey, better late than never right? How's your week going?" People get busy, it happens. Most won't even think twice about the timing.
How do I keep the conversation going after she responds?
How do I keep the conversation going after she responds?
For keeping convos going - the secret is to actually build on what they're saying. If they mention loving coffee, don't just say "cool" - ask about their favorite cafe or share a funny coffee addiction story. Give them something to work with!
Is it okay to text late at night if she's still online?
Is it okay to text late at night if she's still online?
Depends on the vibe honestly. If they're actively online and the conversation is flowing, sure! But maybe keep it casual at first - save the deep conversations for when you know each other better.
She takes hours to reply - am I being too clingy if I respond quickly?
She takes hours to reply - am I being too clingy if I respond quickly?
omg don't stress about matching their response speed! Quick replies don't make you clingy. Just live your life and respond when you can. If anything, it shows you're genuine and engaged. Just don't spam them if they haven't responded yet!
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So, after talking with my crush for a month, he just texted me asking to meet up for the first time. However, I don't think I'm ready yet. What should I say?
omg!! those butterflies in your stomach must be going wild!
totally get why you're nervous - first meetups are always like that
hey but no pressure - if you're not ready, just tell them! maybe something like:
"hey! really appreciate the invite and love our chats - might need a bit more time tho, hope you understand"
or keep it super casual:
"thanks for asking! mind if we chat a bit longer? still feeling kinda shy 🙈"
trust me, if they're worth it, they'll understand
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Oh gosh, this is such a classic 'party vs deadline' situation!
how about asking them: "I've got some stuff tonight too... how long do you think you'll need help?" just to see if it's even doable
if it feels like too much (probably is tbh), just be straight up:
"really wish I could help, but got my own deadline crunch tonight. Maybe check with your prof about an extension?"
look, we've all had those deadline panic moments, but let's be real here - they've had plenty of time to work on this before the party came up.
sometimes being a good friend means not enabling these last-minute habits, you know what I mean?
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Hold up - this profile is giving EVERYTHING! 😍
You could definitely play off her coffee enthusiasm since she seems pretty passionate about it!
like "I see you're a coffee enthusiast - what's your take on the best coffee spot in town? I'm always looking for new recommendations!"
or you could go with something like "Your photography interest caught my eye - got any favorite spots for spontaneous photo adventures around here?"
Both are super natural and not trying too hard!
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