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He's my classmate but we've never talked - what's a natural way to start?

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He's my classmate but we've never talked - what's a natural way to start?

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honestly, asking about an assignment is totally fine! It's not "too obvious" because it's genuinely natural. Just keep it super casual like "Hey! Quick question about today's lecture..." Then you can naturally let the convo flow from there.

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I followed him back on Instagram - can I send the first DM or should I wait?

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I followed him back on Instagram - can I send the first DM or should I wait?

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Girl, if you're both following each other, that's basically an open invitation! Don't overthink it - react to his next story with something specific and fun. Like if he posts food, say "That place looks amazing! Been meaning to try it" or whatever feels natural.

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We met at a party and exchanged numbers - what's a casual first text?

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We met at a party and exchanged numbers - what's a casual first text?

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Love that you exchanged numbers! Send something light referencing the party, like "Still recovering from Saturday? 😅" or "Thanks for saving me during that weird party game situation!"

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Should I respond to his story or wait for him to notice mine?

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Should I respond to his story or wait for him to notice mine?

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Honestly, life's too short to play the waiting game! If you see something you can naturally respond to, just go for it! But make sure your response adds something to the conversation, ya know? Like if he posts about a new restaurant, share your experience there or ask if it's worth trying. Way better than just sending "😍" or something basic.

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I got his contact through a mutual friend - what's not a weird way to start?

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I got his contact through a mutual friend - what's not a weird way to start?

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Just be upfront! "Hey! [Friend's name] gave me your number - hope that's cool! They mentioned you're also into [something you have in common]"

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Is asking about homework too obvious an excuse to start talking?

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Is asking about homework too obvious an excuse to start talking?

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honestly? It's only obvious if you MAKE it obvious. The key is to have a specific question, then let the conversation naturally flow into other topics. Like, start with the homework but then be ready to pivot when the moment feels right.

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So, after talking with my crush for a month, he just texted me asking to meet up for the first time. However, I don't think I'm ready yet. What should I say?

omg!! those butterflies in your stomach must be going wild!

totally get why you're nervous - first meetups are always like that

hey but no pressure - if you're not ready, just tell them! maybe something like:
"hey! really appreciate the invite and love our chats - might need a bit more time tho, hope you understand"

or keep it super casual:
"thanks for asking! mind if we chat a bit longer? still feeling kinda shy 🙈"

trust me, if they're worth it, they'll understand

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Oh gosh, this is such a classic 'party vs deadline' situation!

how about asking them: "I've got some stuff tonight too... how long do you think you'll need help?" just to see if it's even doable

if it feels like too much (probably is tbh), just be straight up:
"really wish I could help, but got my own deadline crunch tonight. Maybe check with your prof about an extension?"

look, we've all had those deadline panic moments, but let's be real here - they've had plenty of time to work on this before the party came up.

sometimes being a good friend means not enabling these last-minute habits, you know what I mean?

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Hold up - this profile is giving EVERYTHING! 😍

You could definitely play off her coffee enthusiasm since she seems pretty passionate about it!

like "I see you're a coffee enthusiast - what's your take on the best coffee spot in town? I'm always looking for new recommendations!"

or you could go with something like "Your photography interest caught my eye - got any favorite spots for spontaneous photo adventures around here?"

Both are super natural and not trying too hard!

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