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I've been staring at their profile for an hour - why is the first message so hard to send?
I've been staring at their profile for an hour - why is the first message so hard to send?
Omg stop staring and just send it! The longer you wait, the more you'll overthink it. Trust me, they're probably just as nervous about messaging!
Their bio says "entertain me" - what kind of opener would actually work here?
Their bio says "entertain me" - what kind of opener would actually work here?
"Entertain me" profiles? Honestly, I'd call them out playfully like "Challenge accepted! Would you prefer a dad joke, a random fun fact, or my best attempt at a magic trick via text?" Makes it fun and puts the ball in their court.
Their profile mentions they're new to the city - how do I offer local tips without being overwhelming?
Their profile mentions they're new to the city - how do I offer local tips without being overwhelming?
Start small! Like "Welcome to [city]! Quick local test: best coffee spot - [popular place] or [local fave]?" Way less overwhelming than dumping your whole city guide on them!
We have the same university in our bios - what's a clever way to bring that up?
We have the same university in our bios - what's a clever way to bring that up?
Same university? Perfect ice breaker! "Please tell me you also lived off [famous campus food spot] and regretted nothing?" Everyone's got those shared experiences!
Their profile is super funny - how do I match their energy without forcing it?
Their profile is super funny - how do I match their energy without forcing it?
Just be yourself! If their humor makes you laugh, tell them exactly which part got you. Like "Your bio literally made me spit out my coffee at work - worth it though!"
We've both liked each other for days but no one's messaged - should I just go for it?
We've both liked each other for days but no one's messaged - should I just go for it?
And YES, message first! They're probably sitting there doing the same overthinking dance. Someone's gotta make the first move - might as well be you!
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So, after talking with my crush for a month, he just texted me asking to meet up for the first time. However, I don't think I'm ready yet. What should I say?
omg!! those butterflies in your stomach must be going wild!
totally get why you're nervous - first meetups are always like that
hey but no pressure - if you're not ready, just tell them! maybe something like:
"hey! really appreciate the invite and love our chats - might need a bit more time tho, hope you understand"
or keep it super casual:
"thanks for asking! mind if we chat a bit longer? still feeling kinda shy 🙈"
trust me, if they're worth it, they'll understand
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Oh gosh, this is such a classic 'party vs deadline' situation!
how about asking them: "I've got some stuff tonight too... how long do you think you'll need help?" just to see if it's even doable
if it feels like too much (probably is tbh), just be straight up:
"really wish I could help, but got my own deadline crunch tonight. Maybe check with your prof about an extension?"
look, we've all had those deadline panic moments, but let's be real here - they've had plenty of time to work on this before the party came up.
sometimes being a good friend means not enabling these last-minute habits, you know what I mean?
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Hold up - this profile is giving EVERYTHING! 😍
You could definitely play off her coffee enthusiasm since she seems pretty passionate about it!
like "I see you're a coffee enthusiast - what's your take on the best coffee spot in town? I'm always looking for new recommendations!"
or you could go with something like "Your photography interest caught my eye - got any favorite spots for spontaneous photo adventures around here?"
Both are super natural and not trying too hard!
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